{"id":55222,"date":"2018-02-16T13:31:02","date_gmt":"2018-02-16T11:31:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/copticocc.org\/site\/?p=55222"},"modified":"2018-03-18T13:18:55","modified_gmt":"2018-03-18T11:18:55","slug":"%d8%b9%d9%86-%d8%a7%d9%84%d8%ad%d9%8a%d8%a7%d8%a9-208-%d8%ad%d9%8a%d9%86%d8%a6%d8%b0-%d9%81%d9%82%d8%b7-1622018","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/copticocc.org\/en\/%d8%b9%d9%86-%d8%a7%d9%84%d8%ad%d9%8a%d8%a7%d8%a9-208-%d8%ad%d9%8a%d9%86%d8%a6%d8%b0-%d9%81%d9%82%d8%b7-1622018\/","title":{"rendered":"On Life 208 \u2013 Only Then\u2026! \u2013 February 16, 2018"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 'andale mono', times;\"><strong>In the previous article, we starting speaking about the sage who tackled the importance of man\u2019s realizing his direction in life. He said that all the difficulties man encounters have two faces, one encourages and the other sees nothing but failure and frustration. Yet, man has to choose. Then, we tackled little Tana\u2019s valuable advice to her mother which she gave with innocence and profoundness. Not only did she want her parents, but everybody, to be friends. She wanted human relations to be free of demanding, and told her mother, \u201cTry not to make matters hard, that you might be friends. I want everything to be easy, that is, suitable to human nature.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 'andale mono', times;\"><strong>Indeed, one reason for the failure of human relations is the high expectations which people have of one another, which exceed their abilities. Hence, before judging others and what they give, we should ask ourselves, \u201cCan we realize what we demand of others?\u201d Should we answer in the negative, or \u201chardly,\u201d then it is not fair to ask anybody want we cannot do.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 'andale mono', times;\"><strong>Human abilities differ from one person to another, and those who give a lot are but generous by nature. These people remind me of the \u201cO\u201d blood group which can give all the rest, but take only from its self same group. Don\u2019t you agree that this type is rare? In effect, we should not ask others to do what exceeds their potential, and have to appreciate everybody\u2019s giving: for it testifies to his true love. We have to trust that through this appreciation, he will try to give more for he feels his love and giving are appreciated.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 'andale mono', times;\"><strong>The five-year old girl continues. I pause at a question she poses, \u201cIf we live in world full of cruel people, humans will become beasts. What if few humans live amidst beasts?\u201d Tana answers, \u201cThey will sure devour them. Nobody will remain good. Only beasts will remain. I want everybody to act in a humane manner, that is, myself, mom, dad, and everybody.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: justify;\"><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 'andale mono', times;\"><strong>She resumes, \u201cI only want problems to be solved. I want everything to be fine.\u201d The little girls speaks simply and profoundly about the relation between problems and man\u2019s loss of goodness and humanity. Truly when we realize the depth of our humanity and the right of everybody to realize his own, only then will conflicts and problems disappear, not because they are not there, but because we will have learnt how to handle issues thoughtfully and lovingly, not by destroying one another. I believe that only then will we see God in good, peace, and love everywhere.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #800000; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 'andale mono', times;\"><strong>General Bishop<\/strong><\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #800000; font-size: 14pt; font-family: 'andale mono', times;\"><strong>Head of the Coptic Orthodox Cultural Center<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the previous article, we starting speaking about the sage who tackled the importance of man\u2019s realizing his direction in life. He said that all the difficulties man encounters have two faces, one encourages and the other sees nothing but failure and frustration. Yet, man has to choose. 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